Ah yes dealextreme, love that site. got a link for the one you ordered?
well it arrived today, and the good news is that for some reason they screwed up and sent me two for the price of one... however I now have two very light paperweights... some buttons correspond with mediaportal, but not many.. just searching the forum now to see if there's some simple instructions on how to set up a generic remote.. the stuff I've found so far looks like there's a set number of remotes to choose from (LM remote and IR server suite)... we'll see how I go I guess :-|