I've had a bit more time today, so I've tried the VNC method.
I don't have CCC installed for my Radeon card (another story) so via VNC off another pc with the TV powered off, I went through "Control Panel > All Control Panel Items > Display > Screen Resolution > Advanced Settings > Monitor" then ticked the box that says "Hide modes this monitor cannot display". Going to the Adapter tab then allowed me to pick one of the 1920 x 1080 modes.
We allowed the HTPC to go into S3 turned the TV off and restarted after everything we watched last night, so at least 3 times, and there has been no repeat of the problem.
Typing with fingers crossed,
--Peter
I don't have CCC installed for my Radeon card (another story) so via VNC off another pc with the TV powered off, I went through "Control Panel > All Control Panel Items > Display > Screen Resolution > Advanced Settings > Monitor" then ticked the box that says "Hide modes this monitor cannot display". Going to the Adapter tab then allowed me to pick one of the 1920 x 1080 modes.
We allowed the HTPC to go into S3 turned the TV off and restarted after everything we watched last night, so at least 3 times, and there has been no repeat of the problem.
Typing with fingers crossed,
--Peter